<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[The Sassy Sexologist]]></title><description><![CDATA[Empowering Intimacy, Elevating Relationships]]></description><link>https://www.thesassysexologist.com/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2026 09:04:29 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.thesassysexologist.com/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Is Scheduled Sex the Death of Romance Actually It Is the Secret to Thriving]]></title><description><![CDATA[Raise your hand if you miss spontaneous sex. We all do. We miss the days when a glance across the room meant we were tearing each other's clothes off within minutes Here is the hard truth. Spontaneity is a luxury of people without responsibilities. If you have children demanding careers or aging parents you are running a small corporation. Corporations do not run on whims. They run on strategy brutal truth that modern culture refuses to tell you The Anticipation Factor When I tell couples to...]]></description><link>https://www.thesassysexologist.com/post/is-scheduled-sex-the-death-of-romance-actually-it-is-the-secret-to-thriving</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a58d99938e05b9fea3597ca</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Jul 2026 13:21:29 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/867841_4a2f15c4b05b47818ac212012fc339ef~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_768,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Rizwan Ge</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Invisible Load Is Killing Your Libido And How to Drop It]]></title><description><![CDATA[You love your partner. You find them physically attractive. You even want to want them. Yet when the bedroom door closes you feel nothing but exhaustion and a flicker of guilt for feeling that way. If this resonates you are not broken. You are not low libido by nature. You are suffering from something I see every single day in my practice. The Invisible Load. The Invisible Load is the mental spreadsheet you carry twenty four hours a day. It contains the grocery lists. The children's...]]></description><link>https://www.thesassysexologist.com/post/the-invisible-load-is-killing-your-libido-and-how-to-drop-it</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a58d7dfcb28250fe83abd92</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Jul 2026 13:15:56 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/867841_d1207c1050184a57aa5509188e8a32a5~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_768,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Rizwan Ge</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>