About Us
Providence
My Journey to The Sassy Sexologist
Hi, I’m Providence, the founder of The Sassy Sexologist, and I’m so glad you’re here.
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Growing up, I always wished I had a guide to talk to me about the things that truly mattered. I needed someone to explain the basics of our bodies, to explicitly teach me about the vagina as a whole and to offer a clear, healthy guide to sexual behavior. But more than that, I needed someone to teach me about relationships: how to love and be loved properly, how to spot red flags and how to navigate abusive situations.
Preparing for Marriage, Missing a Piece
Years later, when I was preparing for my wedding, I looked for someone to come to my bridal shower who could teach my guests and me what to really expect from marriage, and how to mutually please a husband or partner. Of course, prayer is one of our pillars, but what about the bedroom? Once again, I looked and I couldn’t find anyone.
In our culture, sex and intimacy have so often been treated as taboos. We are told that what happens in the marriage bed stays there and that you must suffer through your struggles in silence. I decided to break that silence. I chose to become the Tete, the guide, the mother, and the big sister I always wished I had.
My space is entirely judgment-free, and together, we can tackle the things that weigh heaviest on you:
Our solutions
Relationship & Trust Problems:
Navigating conflicts, communication breakdowns, and rebuilding trust.
Bedroom Confidence & Education:
Overcoming anxiety, body image issues, and learning explicit sex position techniques.
Desire & Arousal:
Finding your spark again and understanding changes in sexual function without shame.
Healing Trauma & Identity:
Gently processing sexual trauma and reclaiming your body and your pleasure.