Start with yourself. Pleasure taught me more about who I am than any amount of discipline or sacrifice or self-improvement ever did. It taught me how to be still. How to be greedy. How to want something and not apologize for wanting it. How to stay in a feeling long enough to actually feel it instead of rushing through to the part where I could ask if he was okay. And here's the thing that's going to sound counterintuitive but I need you to sit with it. The more selfish I bec

Why Women Experience Difficulty Initiating Sex A maritl eor relationship trend nearly always (if not exclusively), men take the lead in initiating sex. Men tend to miss feeling wanted when their partner takes the initiative. Women, on the flip side, have disclosed that they DO wish to initiate, but there are additional elements at play that restrain them. This pattern can be traced to a range of social, cultural, and biological factors. Grasping these reasons can assist coupl

Physical intimacy plays a vital role in preserving a healthy marriage, but what occurs when men, despite their intense sexual desires, cease demonstrating affection toward their wives? The reality is, many men crave sex regularly, yet they frequently pursue it outside the marital bond. This produces a paradox where both spouses long for intimacy, yet something within the relationship drives them to pull away from one another. Why does this take place, and what can couples do